Painting by Belynda Wilson Thomas

Excellence is allergic to deferred maintenance. Dave Kline

A stitch in time saves nine. Anyone who knits knows it’s true. We get warnings, but often don’t heed them, and then something worse happens. Over the winter, I’ve been getting something or getting over something, so I got out of my morning exercise routine.

On Saturday, it was beautiful, and my husband and I went outside to do yard work. In the evening, sitting and watching TV, I got a horrendous cramp in my left leg, and it took a bit of stretching and kneading to get rid of it. I kept saying to myself over the winter, I need to get back to exercising. Doing a lot, after doing almost nothing, isn’t good for us.

We need to heed the warnings, the still small voice that says I should call or visit. How many people have heeded the voice to run over to a friend or relative to find them in distress? Now that everyone has a cell phone, it won’t happen as often, but not everyone who needs help will call. We tell ourselves they will, but we also know it isn’t easy to ask for help, and sometimes we only see their feeble attempt after the fact.

Dad said to me, “When are you coming out?” Two family weddings were planned for that August, so that was my answer. He died before Father’s Day, and then I understood what he’d been trying to tell me.

When we set up help for Mom, we had a schedule for who would stay with her set up a few months in advance.  She said, “Don’t worry about more than that.” I knew what she meant, and she didn’t need help past what we had set up.

How often have we looked at something and known we have a situation to deal with, before it gets worse? How often do we deal with it in time, and how often does it get worse before we are forced to deal with what we already knew was there to be dealt with?

Never put off till tomorrow, what you can do the day after tomorrow. Mark Twain

Listening to Realtors talk about deferred maintenance, the maintenance needed that never got done. At the time of sale, it all needs to be looked after. A home inspector might give a list pages and pages long of things not fixed. Are there people who are always on top of everything? When something needs doing, they do it. An inspector would find nothing in their house that needs fixing.

What areas of our lives do we have deferred maintenance? What nags at us? Are there improvements we could make that would give us a better life? Would a few exercises in the morning and a walk a day keep us limber and strong? If we handle the little things better, would it add up to big improvements in our lives? In the garden of life, are we planting seeds we want, or are we harvesting whatever the wind blows our way?

Another flaw in the human character is that everybody wants to build and nobody wants to do maintenance. Kurt Vonnegut

If your body is a temple, you can pile up too much deferred maintenance. If your body is a temple, mine was a real fixer-upper. Chuck Palahniuk

Systems do not maintain themselves; even our lack of intervention is an act of maintenance. Every structure in every society is upheld by the active and passive assistance of other human beings. Sonya Renee Taylor

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